We must be ready to do without something in order to make another member of the family enjoy it; we must give up our personal tastes to conform to the tastes of others . . . not to be hard to deal with, touchy, sour, proud; not to be obstinately rooted in one's ideas, not to grow impatient about mere nothings, but to have a large mind and a generous heart. A family whose members possess these qualities is a paradise on earth.
-- The Art of Being Happy